Thread:Zf6hellion/@comment-18812574-20141015053921/@comment-1493741-20141016223310

@Prody:

You had all the time to type that wall of text (That still points out that you don't get it) but you can't pop up every now and again for a minute or two to let someone know that the story you "planned" with them is going to be put on hold for a bit more (Or should I say indefinitely?). You don't need to be there every day, its one message, y'know, saying "I'm gonna be gone for the next month or two". This is something you can do on a fucking phone. Yeah, real straight on those priorities, kid.

Also... Public message wall, I ain't sayin' a damn thing behind your back. You could come in here at any time, its not hidden, in fact every message showed up on the Recent Changes bit. If this was Facebook or Twitter, I'd flat out tag you so you'd know.

What's best for you and "people have lives" aren't excuses that work, especially if you consider the fact that in the latter case, so does everyone else, and the former stops being a thing when you openly invite someone to work on a story with you. What I'm annoyed at with you about is that you seem to think its entirely okay for you to rope someone in with promises of a collaboration, wait till they get everything together (like: María Elis D'corta for example) then fuck off into the ether only to come back months later and act like none of this happened. Your own time is so precious, but other people's can be freely wasted? That's just not on, man.

To make things better, I know multiple people that do far more than you do, I know a guy that works 3 full time jobs every freakin' day, and he can still find the time to talk to his mates and be there for his kid. Hell, both my collaborators in Equilibrium are active in college and I don't see them pulling this shit. My grandad is basically a vegetable, I work full time, I can still be here, there for him, and do my job. You know what happens if I'm going to be busy and can't update that collaboration? I let them know. Its not hard to do, and any argument to the contrary is you just continually painting yourself as a self-important asshole.