Thread:Silver-Haired Seireitou/@comment-4969779-20120709144727

Sigh* Sei....We need to have a serious talk. When I'm writing this, I'm not being insulting but just putting it out there. Also, I'm going to simplify this as much as possible. It took me from 2 a.m. to 3 a.m. just to get the message of what you're writing. After examining this, here are a few things that get to me:

1. "I don't want a hollow apology" : Seriously, like WTF man. Is that what you really think, that all of my apologies are hollow. Obviously, since you took out your sweet time telling me this. Since when have you ever seen me give a "hollow" apology, as you put it. That's the same thing as saying "I don't give two shits for what this person is saying and I should ignore them for now on because they'll be a thorn in my side." If that's how you honestly feel, then you must think I don't take Ten, Nisshou, Blankslate, or any writer for that manner, seriously. Look, I respect everyone around here and try to help out. Yes, sometimes things I do may seem out of hand, but sometimes and I do mean SOMETIMES, it's for a good intention. I like to comment and help out new users because I don't want them to get in trouble with you admins. That's why Iffel that way sometimes. Nisshou or Mangetsu usually scold me for doing some stupid stuff and I understand and try to make it right. Look, I've been here for about 3-4 months and I've literally learned a lot from being here. Not just you, but from everyone else here.

2. "Similar to the above, this "friendship" you keep uttering to me and Ten especially... also lacks substance" : Tell me something Sei. I felt very offended when you say this on my talk page. Do you say this with everyone that tries to be friends with you and Ten?! Huh, DO YOU?! Because if that's the case then you have a horrible system of making friends. The lines that REALLY and LITERALLY irks me the most is when you said this:

"You don't know us. You've been in limited contact with us for not more than maybe a month or two. You don't know anything about us. About our doings. About our pains. About our struggles."

This statement is like adding insult to injury. Yes this maybe true Sei, but that doesn't mean we still can't be friends. Yes, I don't know these things because you don't tell me them. Hell, even if you do, I'll still listen and HEY, I even tell you and Ten, scratch that anyone for that matter. I'll still think of you the same way in the end. There are different ways a friendship can be formed. There are many right ways and many wrong ways as well. What you said was one way and I'm trying to do it my own way. I find it ridiculous that you feel this way about me Sei, but I'm not the type that would be so petty and immature on the context of friendship. Look, many people don't have a goos start when they meet a new person or new people for that matter, but that doesn't mean that they can work it out.

Right now, after all of this, I feel like lashing out at you for saying such stupid debacle, but as any civilizede perso would, I'll just leave it at that. Yes, you do great work here as well, which is something I'd admire about you. Yes, you can be rather immature and blunt about something that's irking you, but I only know that you do it for the good of the wiki's, the person's, and the other user's intentions. Don't worry, your not the only one who does this. I hope we can talk more calmly in the near future. 