Thread:Silver-Haired Seireitou/@comment-5651818-20160128182750/@comment-24384232-20160129202416

Ahh, my mistake then. Personally i'm rather ambivalent towards romantic relationships. I have a great desire to be in one and there is a level of admiration for it as well. But on the other hand, I find myself not giving a shit and unmotivated to actually go out and build one. Society puts the onus on the male to initiate first contact and essentially maintain... the direction I suppose of the relationship. The problem is that it requires time, money and quite a bit of personal investment. None of which I have in abundance right now so the notion of actually trying to get into one is not economically (accounting for all three categoreis) feasible. I think that seems to be the situation for most males my age who are single. Coupled with getting burned in one relationship after the next Im not surprised you feel that way either. And its hard to argue with your logic and observations since those are fairly consistent with other experiences people have talked to me about.

Still I think you should try the opposite side of the spectrum to determine if your deduction holds merit. As you mentioned you've only dated girls who had zero self-esteem, so perhaps you should try a woman who actually does?