User blog comment:BraveHeart70/Uhhh..../@comment-2182964-20150518093037

This reminds me of the time I got drunk and asked a bus-load of my friends how to get a girl to like you, with said girl sitting one seat up from me. At the time it wasn't a great idea: my friends never lot me live it down! But I ended up going out with that girl for almost three years because she initially found me funny, so it wasn't a bad move in hindsight. My point is you don't get anywhere with girls without being a little brave, buddy (just don't get drunk like I did). Don't worry so much about it. When you worry you run the risk of tripping over your own tongue (like I do at times).

And if she says no? Again don't worry. There's plenty of fish in the sea, buddy. And don't let others put you down either. Just go for it! My first attempt at asking a girl out was a disaster; if I based everything on that one try I'd still be single. I was at a bar and approached her and asked what she was having to drink. She threw her drink round me. Shit happens but we learn from it. Experience is the best confidence builder out there.

I wish you all the best, buddy!