Thread:Silver-Haired Seireitou/@comment-5651818-20160128182750/@comment-24384232-20160129181125

Brave, and yes even you Sei, I'm going to impart some life-changing advice a friend once told me. Don't put pussy on a pedastal. Yeah, I said it. Its blunt but if what either of you are telling me is on point, I believe this is the root cause of all your problems.

You're looking at these women like they're the holy grail and that will invariably color every experience you have with them, and they will know it. You're looking at them as something greater than you are, as though their beauty somehow elevates them to a higher plateau far above where you stand. Because of that it makes you nervous, it makes jittery, hesitant and unsure.

When you see her instead as just another human being, a normal person, only then will you be able to have a civil, maybe even productive conversation with her. If you show the same level of confidence as you do with you friends, and in your general profession, everything will fall into place.

These women arent better than either of you, they arent Super Saiyans, they're not Gods, hell they're not even superhuman, so stop treating them as such. Overcome this hurdle and you will find conversations with them become more natural.