Thread:Silver-Haired Seireitou/@comment-5651818-20160128182750/@comment-18812574-20160129021807

You know Brave, just as a question: but do you hang out with people you would consider to be outside your "normal" social sphere? I mean, girls are human too afterall. Sometimes it can be wise to broaden your infuences: to hang out with people of different ages, nationalities, and then (yes) even genders. If you start building confidence by interacting with a wide range of different people you might find yourself seeing people as just that: people. (They're shouldn't be seen as obstacles, in other words).

Granted I find it hard to talk to girls who I find to be insanely attractive myself (well, one particular girl *ahem*) but the thing is that you can't make it seem bigger than what it is. A conversation can be just that: a conversation. While it might be hard to detatch yourself from your own attraction, sometimes I have found such measures to be necessary (and in fact beneficial) in the long run.